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Inspiration Weekly
"S | |
peed kills."
I read that sticker on the dashboard of a U-Haul truck
countless times as I drove 1,236 miles last week.
As the miles and hours passed over two days, I pondered the
phrase.
Wax philosophical with me for a moment. This is important.
Technically, I concluded, speed does not kill.
What kills is the loss of blood and function from fatal impact.
Speed can certainly be a causal factor for accidents, which can cause fatal impact.
But if you're going to blame death on one causal factor, why
not move further up the causal chain?
Can we not just as easily say, "Driving kills"? And why stop
there? What causes us to drive?
In my case, my family and I decided to move. Does moving
kill, because we drive to move and we may speed while driving?
And what about the factors that led to our decision to move,
the causal factors set in motion long before we ever got on the road to move?
If we can blame death on one causal factor, we can logically
blame it on any causal factor -- none of
which are technically true causes.
Here's what is true: Choices and actions bear consequences. Wise people learn to foresee
consequences and act accordingly.
Says wise man Viktor Frankl,
"Live as if you were living already for the second time and as if you had acted the first time as wrongly as you are about to act now."
Read that quote again, will you? And a
third time, slowly and carefully. Let it really sink in. It is one of the most important quotes you will ever read in your life.
Live as if you could foresee the
consequences of your actions.
Saying "Speed kills" is like saying
"Infidelity causes divorce."
But what causes infidelity?
What will be the long-term consequences
of how you treat your spouse today? What can you say to or do for your spouse
today that will bear the fruits of love and joy decades from now?
Live as if you were living already for
the second time and as if you had seen what happens to your marriage as a
result of how you treat your spouse today.
If we say, "Speed kills," we can also
say that addiction ruins lives.
But trace addiction up the causal chain
and you ultimately arrive at one choice in a portentous moment. One indulgent
moment leading to another and another, character and willpower eroding with
each choice.
What are you putting into your mind and
body today, and what will that ultimately cause?
As my friend Kris Krohn says, "I don't
have to stick my head in a garbage can to know that it stinks."
Live as if you were already living for
the second time and as if you had stuck your head in the garbage can the first
time. You know it stinks. How does this change your choices today?
Every thought, every choice, every act is
a seed. Seeds take root and bear fruit.
Ultimately, there are only two kinds of
fruit: misery and joy.
Misery seeds are deceiving because they
feel good when they are planted.
Live
as if you were living already for the second time and as if you had seen the
fruits of the seeds you are about to plant now.
Indulgence may feel good now, but how
will it feel later? Sacrifice may be tough now, but what will it produce later?
Speed doesn't kill. But it does, like
all our actions, carry consequences.
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